The Secret Barn

(5)
£800 - £5,150 for Venue Hire
Up to 110
Bedrooms
Exclusive Use
Wedding Licence
Late Availability
Last Minute Dates Available
10% Off
The Secret Barn Full Description
Nestled down a quiet country lane, tucked in at the foot of The South Downs, The Secret Barn is a ‘proper barn’, on a proper farm. Full of charm, this unpretentious, authentic, old threshing barn is the perfect setting for your laid back wedding. This is the quintessential rural Sussex idyll, complete with a paddock for camping, an orchard perfect or for your ceremony, a lawn for daytime canapé-ing and night time toasting of marshmallows over the fire pit, there are even a few cows. Think trestle tables, garland lights, straw bales, star gazing, wild flowers, Darling Buds of May, Boho romance.

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Experience

Year Business Was Established
2014
No. of Weddings Hosted
More than 50
Public Liability Insurance
Yes
No. of People In Team
3
The Secret Barn Features & Capacity

Overview

Venue Type
Barn
Dining Capacity
110
Reception Capacity
150
Sleeps No. of People
40
Bridal Suite
Changing Only
Usual Access Time
10:00 PM
Usual Finish Time
10:00 PM

Ceremony & Reception

Wedding Licence
Outdoor Ceremony Available
Camping available

Venue

Disabled Access
Pet Friendly
Outdoor Reception Space
Exclusive Use
Open Flame Permitted
Marquee Permitted
On-Site Parking

Food and Drink

In-house Catering
No Corkage Charge for Own Alcohol
Bar

Cultural Specialists

Asian Wedding Specialist
Jewish Wedding Specialist
Muslim Wedding Specialist
Other
The Secret Barn Pricing & Costs

Venue Hire Only

Prices Start At
£800
Maximum Price
£5,150
Exclusive use of the site. The use of the paddock area for camping (optional extra, available between May and September, up to 40 happy campers) The Orchard with beautiful apple trees and wild flower area or lovely old Georgian wall as a back drop, perfect for a Darling Buds of May Style / Humanist ceremony, if you wanted to do something like that. Use of The Secret Barn itself (seats up 110 ish/stands up to 150), with beams bedecked with fairy lights and floor boards begging to be danced on! The lawn area in front of the barn can be used for welcome drinks and canapés and / or sitting around the fire later on; parking in the main field The wonky barn, available to use for your ‘wedding service’ or it can be used as back up for your ceremony and canapés in case of inclement weather There are also tables and benches included in the overall price You have Thursday and Friday to set up and the Sunday and Monday to pack up No corkage fees on free bars Additionally, as a rough guide catering is usually from around £65 plus VAT. canapés, main course, pudding and evening food.
What is included in this pricing:
Exclusive use
Day before set up available
External caterers not permitted
Furniture included
Reviews
(5)
Rachael & Jo
Happy couple married in June
July 2024
The perfect wedding!
Our experience with the amazing team at Petal and Feast smashed all our expectations! We booked the secret barn about 18 months before our wedding, and throughout the planning process both Hannah and Sally supported us with everything. The homework clubs and frequent support via email were incredibly useful and gave us opportunities to ask questions and get advice. Petal and Feast are clearly really knowledgeable and we made use of their expertise! One thing that was really important to us was to be able to incorporate some Norwegian traditions - such as a cake table and MANY speeches. Hannah and Sally listened to our ideas, were really adaptable and made our dream wedding come to fruition! One of the added bonuses of the Secret Barn is the access you get before and after your wedding day; and that it's completely a blank slate. We were able to access the venue a few days in advance, so had plenty of time to prep the venue and decorate it how we wanted (think: canvas signage, bunting and candle jars)! It allowed us to be completely creative, with Petal & Feast being big cheerleaders! The secret barn is a beautiful venue, with so many different spaces you can utilise. Both the reception and ceremony barn have so much character, and made for excellent locations to get married and feast! The outside spaces are perfect for photos, games, mingling, drinking, speeches and snacking - especially if you have the weather! The food itself was fantastic, with so many options to choose from and the ability to customise it to your needs. We went for canapes, tapas, a BBQ, cake table and ice cream cart, and no one was left hungry. The flowers are STUNNING and we loved that they were grown locally. We 100% recommend having the flower ladder and chandeliers, as they really compliment the barn and surroundings. We received so many comments from our guests about how much they enjoyed the day, and so much of this was down to Petal & Feast. If we could get married at the secret barn every week, we would! A massive thank you to Hannah and Sally, and the rest of the team, for all your support!
Response from the venue
Thank you so much for your lovely review, we loved hosting you and all your lovely friends! Congratulations and come back and say hi sometime - you know where we are! With lots of love from us all. xxx
Venue responded
Louisa and Craig
Happy couple married in May
July 2024
The best day!
We got engaged in Italy in Oct 2023 and we quite firmly wanted to get married as soon as possible! We have 4 children between us, so it was really important to us to find a super relaxed, fun venue where everyone felt comfortable. This is where Petal and Feast came along. Having seen photos of the venue on Instagram we were still on our Italian adventure when we contacted Hannah for availability. We were in luck, May 2024 was available and we booked a viewing straight after we landed back on English soil! The Secret Barn is extremely rustic but very romantic. A blank sheet of paper which could be decorated in whichever way we wanted. I was in love at first sight! Hannah and Sally helped us every step of the way, from choosing our menu, our flower choices, type of ceremony, the timings throughout the day and hiring equipment. It was an amazing experience and we loved every moment. Our wedding was simply the most idyllic day. All the pre-planning and setup was worth it and as I walked into the rustic ceremony barn, twinkling lights flickering, all my family and friends smiling and my gorgeous groom at the end of the aisle, it was absolutely perfect! The relaxed nature of the day continued throughout. Drinks on the lawn, relaxed BBQ food in the main barn, lawn games, speeches and a party with lovely band. Some of our friends, us included, stayed in beautiful bell tents over night too. Thank you Petal and Feast gang! Our wedding was all we could have ever dreamt of!
Response from the venue
Ah that's so nice! Thank you for leaving us a lovely review, please come and get married every year! Lots of love from us all. x
Venue responded
Jess and Pat
Happy couple married in September
May 2024
We couldn't have imagined a more perfect day
There really aren’t enough words to express our thanks for all of your hard work. The food was fabulous, the flowers an absolute dream, and you made the whole process wonderfully smooth. We couldn’t have imagined a more perfect day, and you were central to making that happen.
Katie and Will
Happy couple married in July
May 2024
Everything we dreamed of and more
We just wanted to say a huge thank you for everything. We had the best day ever. It was everything we dreamed of and more. The setting was gorgeous, flowers beautiful and we have had endless feedback on how delicious the food was. We really can't thank you enough and will look back forever on the day with fondness. Many thanks, Katie and Will
Elliot and Rowena
Happy couple married in July
May 2024
Surpassed all our hopes and wishes
Honestly, this wedding far surpassed all of our hopes and wishes and we have had, what we biasedly believe to be, the best wedding weekend going and we really must lay a lot of our gratitude at your door. You all clearly know what you’re doing and we must say that the organisation, whilst it was busy and intense towards the end, felt like not as big of a task as it might have in the hands of other wedding organisers/venues! We feel this was totally mirrored throughout the day and really was the vibe we were going for. Also, we must congratulate you all on such triumphant flowers and food! It was all so delicious and everyone loved the relaxed atmos of the big canteen-style barn and big tables and buffet with such yummy food. And the flowers, from the little ones on the tables to the button holes to the flower arch and the bridal bouquet: they were all so beautiful and again, that rustic classical style was honestly exactly what we wanted. We will treasure the day for the rest of our lives, so thank you for being an integral part of it. All the best, Elliott + Rowena X PS I stand by my decision to go and get more beers”
The Secret Barn Location & Contact Details

Address

Nr Steyning, West Sussex, England, United Kingdom

Travel Notes

Come and visit our beautiful venue and book us for your big day!

Nearest Town

Steyning

Nearest Motorway & Junction

M25

Nearest Train Station

Shoreham by Sea

Nearest Airport

Gatwick

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FAQs
Find out a bit more from our FAQs

Describe the best wedding that happened at The Secret Barn ?

All of our weddings are the very best.

What is your No. 1 wedding planning tip for couples?

Collaborate, make sure both of your ideas are included so that your big day is even more special.

What’s your favourite personal touch you’ve seen at a wedding?

A doggy ring bearer - So cute you'll cry! 🐶💍

Describe The Secret Barn in 5 adjectives

Authentic, relaxed, foody, flowery, boho heaven

Where’s the best photo spot at The Secret Barn ?

So many to choose from, old walls, the pond, ceremoy barn, orchard, falling down farm buildings... tick tick tick

Have you had any celebrity guest or wedding at The Secret Barn ?

Yes - but we are terrible at knowing things like that!

What’s your favourite canapé?

Has to be Cucumber-Dill!

What’s your favourite midnight treat?

Chocolate-covered strawberries 🍓🍓, simple but timeless.

What is The Secret Barn most unique feature?

The authenticness - is that a word? And all the flowers we grow especially for decorating the barn (a whole field full!).

What part of your business are you most proud of?

Our lovely team are the bees knees and none of it would happen without them so they take first place.

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