Alexander House & Utopia Spa

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£8,500 - £14,000 for a package
Up to 90
57 Bedrooms
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Description

Inside, the Grade II listed manor house is a stylish 5-star hotel with two restaurants, an award-winning spa and 58 stylish bedrooms & suites With four stunning ceremony and reception suites, a pretty outdoor wedding gazebo and beautiful gardens for photo opportunities, our AA red five star hotel is the perfect setting for an unforgettable day. Our private dining rooms can accommodate between 2 and 90 guests for a wedding breakfast and up to 200 in the evening. Walk down the aisle, exchange vows, and celebrate your love surrounded by unparalleled beauty. We are licensed for wedding ceremonies both inside the hotel and have a very pretty gazebo, set in a private garden. Whether you are looking for an intimate ceremony with a couple of witnesses or an all-out weekend celebration we have the perfect package for you. Our experienced wedding co-ordinators will be with you every step of the way to support & offer advice in the lead up to your wedding day.

Personal Message from the Manager

Name of Wedding Contact: Sophie
Congratulations on your engagement! We would love the opportunity to show you around Alexander House & Utopia Spa for you to see why Alexander House is perfect for your wedding. We are experts in weddings and will be with you every step of the way to ensure that together we plan the day of your dreams.

Experience

Year Business Was Established
2008
No. of Weddings Hosted
Between 30 and 50
Public Liability Insurance
Yes
No. of People In Team
4

Overview of Alexander House & Utopia Spa

Wedding Venue Type
Hotel
Wedding Venue Capacity
Dining Capacity
90
Reception Capacity
200
Wedding Venue Accommodation
No. of Bedrooms
57
Sleeps No. of People
105
Bridal Suite
Honeymoon Suite

Wedding Ceremony & Reception

Church Within Walking Distance
Sound System Available
Dancefloor Available
Outdoor Ceremony Available
Confetti Permitted
Wedding Licence

Wedding Venue Details

Landscaped Gardens
Exclusive Use
Open Flame Permitted
Spa On-Site
Bridal Changing Facilities
Disabled Access
Grade I/II Listed Building
On-Site Parking
Outdoor Reception Space
In-House Wedding Coordinator
Pet Friendly

Wedding Catering

In-House Wine List
In-house Catering
Alcohol Licence

Pricing for Alexander House & Utopia Spa

Packages
(price per head)

Prices Start At
£145
Maximum Price
£165
Minimum Number of Guests
16
To Have and To Hold is our flexible day package based on 16 - 90 guests and includes; Team of wedding co-ordinators to assist with your planning Complimentary menu tasting for 2 guests Private wedding reception suite room hire up until 5pm Red carpet (if required) Toastmaster role conducted by our Banqueting Manager Two Reception drinks per guests—Sparkling Wine, Pimms, Bucks Fizz or Peach Bellini Four course meal including coffee and petit fours Half bottle of wine per guest Branded mineral water to be served with the meal A glass of House Champagne for each guest to toast the happy couple Hire of cake stand and knife Preferential bedroom rates for your guests
What is included in this pricing:
Wine / soft drinks allowance per guest
Furniture included
Multiple course wedding breakfast
Wedding coordinator available on the day
Private room(s) included (non-exclusive use)
Non consumables (e.g. linen, lights etc.)

Packages
(total price)

Prices Start At
£8,500
Maximum Price
£14,000
Number of Guests Included
50
Ceremony room or wedding gazebo hire, trial & on the day hair styling for the Bride or Groom, complete exclusivity of the Shelley suite, including a private bar, garden and terrace, beautiful handmade professional stationery (place cards, table plan, menus and table names), professional toastmaster, two reception drinks per person, four canapés per person, three course wedding breakfast plus coffee & petits fours, half bottle of wine per person, mineral water, a glass of rosé Champagne for the toasts, hire of a cake stand and knife, DJ & Disco and white LED dancefloor until midnight, bacon rolls and chunky chips or fish and chips for up to 80 guests, bridal suite on the evening of your wedding with breakfast the following morning, two luxury bedrooms for your chosen guests with breakfast the following morning and complimentary parking for the Bride & Groom whilst on honeymoon. Additional guests are charged at £110 per person.
What is included in this pricing:
Wedding coordinator available on the day
Wine / soft drinks allowance per guest
Canapés included
Guest accommodation included
Furniture included
Couple accommodation included
Multiple course wedding breakfast
Non consumables (e.g. linen, lights etc.)
Private room(s) included (non-exclusive use)

Reviews for Alexander House & Utopia Spa
(5)

Ryan T
Happy couple married in September
September 2024
A disaster - avoid at all costs!
We had our wedding here, however the weekend was a huge disappointment as someone gained access to our family members’ room and broke into a locked case stealing a large amount of money. The staff had no empathy and did not seem to care when they were informed of this. The police were called after and the investigation is ongoing. We were informed that other people’s keycards can sometimes access other rooms which is highly worrying, so this hotel is not a safe place for guests. There were some other mishaps on our wedding day. There were extra rooms charged to us due to bookings we did not ourselves make. Also, some of the wedding items were not delivered and we had to make do without. Do not consider booking your wedding or any other event here. It is a beautiful location, however many of the staff clearly do not care. The lack of organisation and communication made our wedding planning process a real pain in the final couple of months before the event.
Anne
Happy couple married in September
September 2024
Wedding day ruined by theft happened at this hotel! Would not recommend having your wedding day here.
My family traveled all the way across the world to stay at this hotel for the night of my wedding. The next morning, their room got broke into, and luggage lock was broken, and a total value of £400 cash was stolen. We immediately reported this to the hotel reception, but their nonchalant and cold attitude was absolutely appalling and rude. We were concerned and scared, but the hotel reception and management remained unbothered and uncaring. We asked to review the CCTV but had to wait for hours to even get any update. We highly suspect it was hotel internal staff as it’s impossible for someone to target our guest’s room and be in and out so quickly. And even if it’s someone from the outside, it goes to show this hotel has terrible security and any guest staying here cannot feel safe for their belongings. This hotel seems to care more about maintaining their own reputation and not holding their own staffs accountable, than providing genuine care and support for their guests. Also, the hotel somehow double booked some of our rooms, and whilst we were worried and concerned about the £400 that was stolen, they were more concerned about getting us to pay double for the rooms we didn’t stay in. If you would like your wedding day ruined and have your guests belongings being stolen like us, I would highly recommend Alexander House Hotel.
Rose & Andrew
Happy couple married in September
December 2020
We couldn't have asked for anything more
We just wanted to say a huge thank you for everything you did to make our wedding amazing! 😊 We had the best time and all the staff at the hotel were great! We couldn't have asked for anything more 😊 Thank you!!
Maddalena and Ashley
Happy couple married in July
December 2020
Everything at the hotel was just perfect!
I don’t even know how to put into words what an amazing day we had. Everything at the hotel was just perfect. Our guests all said what a beautiful location it was. We were so lucky with the weather as it just showed the hotel off beautifully. We are still buzzing from the day. Jessica the biggest thank you to you and your team who all helped to make our day truly memorable. You’ve been so patient with all our incessant questions. We will definitely be back next year for our anniversary 😀
Jane & Steve
Happy couple married in February
December 2020
The venue was perfect...
We chose Alexander House Hotel for our very small wedding - our every need was catered for - Anna was kind and helpful and went the extra mile to make sure our day was special. The venue was perfect, staff attentive and helpful, food delicious and plentiful, spa was clean and inviting, treatments fantastic, room was luxurious and spacious (Treetops), and we have no hesitation in recommending that you consider Alexander House for your wedding. I'm convinced that the Team would bend over backwards to ensure your stay was special and memorable

Location & Contact Details for Alexander House & Utopia Spa

Wedding Venue Address

East Street, Turners Hill, West Sussex, RH10 4QD, England, United Kingdom

Travel Notes

The hotel is very easy to find using our postcode

Nearest Town

East Grinstead

Nearest Motorway & Junction

M23

Nearest Train Station

East Grinstead

Nearest Airport

Gatwick

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Describe the best wedding that happened at Alexander House & Utopia Spa?

One couple took the entire hotel for their wedding. They had a grand piano on the lawn with fire eaters and a Great Gatsby theme with fantastic 20s style decor.

What is your No. 1 wedding planning tip for couples?

If you find yourself getting too caught up in the planning, step back & remind yourself what your wedding is really about – you marrying the love of your life!

What’s your favourite personal touch you’ve seen at a wedding?

At one of our Christmas weddings the bride & groom arranged a large Christmas tree decorated with pine cones. – the pine cones had each guest's name & table number on them. Guests had to find their name on the tree and then find their table.

Describe Alexander House & Utopia Spa in 5 adjectives

Picturesque, Luxurious, Exclusive, Flexible, Contemporary

Where’s the best photo spot at Alexander House & Utopia Spa?

Inside on our fabulously grand staircase or outside in our sunken garden

Have you had any celebrity guest or wedding at Alexander House & Utopia Spa?

We couldn't possibly say!

What’s your favourite canapé?

Smoked salmon blini

What’s your favourite midnight treat?

A decadent cheeseboard to soak up all that alcohol and fuel the guests for more dancing!

What is Alexander House & Utopia Spa most unique feature?

Our helipad - arrive in style!

What part of your business are you most proud of?

Our super helpful staff
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