Abbey Farm Weddings

£4,500 - £11,000 for Venue Hire
Up to 160
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Rural luxury in the Lincolnshire countryside, this idyllic, private venue offers 2 contemporary barn renovations, set in acres of lush green lawns and parkland featuring the romantic Kirkstead Abbey Ruin.
Abbey Farm Weddings Pricing & Costs

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- All inclusive venue hire - exclusive use of the venue. - Bespoke pricing depending on your needs. - This includes: Fully staffed bar and all glassware, firepit / log burners, floodlighting to gardens / Abbey ruins, exclusive use of venue and surrounding gardens / grounds for beautiful photography backdrop. Indoor and outdoor furniture, traditional wooden garden games.
What is included in this pricing:
Exclusive use
Choice of preferred caterers
Wedding coordinator available on the day
Furniture included
Day before set up available
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Abbey Farm Weddings Features & Capacity


Venue Type
Dining Capacity
Reception Capacity
Usual Access Time
09:00 AM
Usual Finish Time
12:00 AM

Ceremony & Reception

Church Within Walking Distance
Outdoor Ceremony Available
Wedding Licence
Confetti Permitted


Disabled Access
Exclusive Use
Outdoor Reception Space
Water View
On-Site Parking
Pet Friendly
In-House Wedding Coordinator
English heritage site

Food and Drink

Alcohol Licence
External Catering Permitted
In-House Wine List
Abbey Farm Weddings Full Description
Situated in the beautiful rural Lincolnshire countryside, our idyllic and tranquil setting consists of over 30 acres of lush green lawns and parkland. Perfectly positioned beneath the uniquely romantic ruin of Kirkstead Abbey, our venue is bursting with historical charm and even has its own on-site 13th century church. Our beautifully renovated barns have been designed to retain their unique and authentic Rustic Charm, whilst adding a modern luxury twist. Complete with twinkling fairy lights, the warmth and rustic nature of the exposed timber add a genuinely romantic and heartwarming atmosphere to any wedding day. For each couple, there is huge flexibility when choosing how to use the spacious grounds and barns. This customisable element is reflected throughout every aspect of the venue. The choice is yours when deciding between multiple ceremony sites (including outdoor options!), your wedding breakfast location, round/long tables … the list goes on! Couples are also able to hand pick all of their own suppliers, making their day much more personal. As a small, family run business, from the initial viewing to the day itself, Venue Owner Jo and Wedding Manager Millie are always available to offer as much or as little advice as needed! With capacity for up to 160 seated day guests & 250 evening guests, you have the option to hold the huge wedding you have always dreamed of or alternatively, keep things intimate for just close family & friends. There are also a large variety of accommodation options 1 mile down the road in Woodhall Spa to suit all of your guests. Exclusively yours, take advantage of setting up the day before the wedding so that you can enjoy the day itself to the fullest and relax the night before, knowing everything is just as you had imagined & more!

Personal Message from the Manager

Name of Wedding Contact: Jo Nelstrop
Welcome to Abbey Farm Weddings - our family home, farm and wedding venue! Our wedding barns have been built with passion, restoring old stone and brick buildings and building brand new elements - we really love our barns! Romantic rustic luxury is how we would best describe our wedding venue....which we very much look forward to sharing with you


Year Business Was Established
No. of Weddings Hosted
More than 50
Public Liability Insurance
No. of People In Team
Mr & Mrs Chaudhry
Happy couple married in May
July 2024
Nothing short of Incredible!
Millie is genuinely the one of the most incredible people we met! From first contact, all the way to the actual day she had everything under control! She was calm, light­hearted, and full of ideas to help us organise our special day! On the day of the wedding, the rest of the Abbey Farm staff were also nothing short of incredible! I'd recommend Millie and her team to other couples in a heartbeat!
Adam & Rose
Happy couple married in May
June 2024
We're on top of the world
Such a beautiful venue and such warm and welcoming staff. From our first visit to Abbey Farm, we knew this was the venue for us. Millie and Jo were top notch, they were honest and open and nothing was too much trouble. They kept us in the loop every step of the way, were always on hand to answer our questions and helped us to plan the most magical day ever. All our guests fell in love with the venue, they were mesmerised at how beautiful it all was and that everything had been thought of. Having two barns for a wedding makes everything flow so seamlessly, there was ample space for the guests. The garden space and lawn games were brilliant and the old abbey ruins make the perfect backdrop for photographs. I would recommend this venue to anyone looking to have the wedding of their dreams.
Response from the venue
Thank you so much for your lovely words Rose & Adam! We had so much fun celebrating with you all
Venue responded
Mr & Mrs Naulls
Happy couple married in May
July 2024
We would choose here every time
What a fab day! Everything ran smoothly, great atmosphere, friendly staff and so attentive. If we could do it all again we absolutely would and we would choose here every time! Love Mr & Mrs Naulls
Mr & Mrs Stewart
Happy couple married in December
April 2024
Our Perfect Venue
From start to finish everything has flowed so perfectly which just led to such a beautiful day. We couldn't recommend the venue enough to anyone looking both for the beauty of the venue and the helpfulness of the staff that run it. Thank you so much for making our special day that much more special!
Bethan & Ashley
Happy couple married in December
December 2023
Our truly beautiful winter wedding
Our winter wedding just seemed to go perfectly from start to finish and for that we must thank Abbey Farm. A truly beautiful wedding venue situated just outside Woodhall Spa, it has a lovely rustic feel throughout and brings the warmth of underfloor heating and fireplaces throughout. The team that run Abbey Farm are so helpful and professional they made the whole process so easy for us. From initial viewing all the way to the big day, Abbey Farm have been so helpful and we can see why they're held in such high regard by vendors who had previously worked with them. We couldn't recommend this venue enough to anyone wanting to get married in this area, thank you again for such a beautiful day.
Mr & Mrs Smith
Happy couple married in December
April 2024
Fantastic Venue!
The Venue is absolutely stunning! And if I could do it all over again I would, the day was perfect! Millie & Jo really went above and beyond to make sure we were all ok and made sure all our needs were met. Fantastic venue and fantastic people! All guests commented it was the best wedding they had ever attended!
Abbey Farm Weddings Location & Contact Details


Abbey Farm, Kirkstead, Lincolnshire, LN10 6UH, England

Nearest Town

Woodhall Spa

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