Abbey Farm Weddings

£4250 - £7000 for Venue Hire
Up to 160
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Rural luxury in the Lincolnshire countryside, this idyllic location with 2 beautiful farm barns is set in acres of lush green lawns and parkland the uniquely romantic ruin of Kirkstead Abbey
Pricing & Costs

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All inclusive venue hire including all furniture - indoors and out, fully staffed bar and all glassware, firepit / log burners, floodlighting to gardens / Abbey ruins, exclusive use of venue and surrounding gardens / grounds for beautiful photography backdrop
What is included in this pricing:
Exclusive use
Choice of preferred caterers
Wedding coordinator available on the day
Furniture included
Day before set up available
Features & Capacity


Venue Type
Dining Capacity
Reception Capacity
Usual Access Time
Usual Finish Time


Disabled Access
Exclusive Use
Outdoor Reception Space
Water View
In-House Wedding Coordinator
On-Site Parking

Food and Drink

Alcohol Licence
External Catering Permitted
In-House Wine List

Ceremony & Reception

Church Within Walking Distance
Outdoor Ceremony Available
Wedding Licence
Full Description
With twinkling fairy lights, The Oak Barn is at the heart of every wedding at Abbey Farm Wedding with 300 year old craftsmanship bought into the modern day the oak is brought to life and adds an amazingly romantic and heart warming rustic atmosphere. The Old Granary Barn has been recently renovated to offer licensed ceremonies on site. St Leonard's Church is also situated on the farm and is within walking distance with some amazing photo options on the way! All this is Exclusively yours On arrival our outdoor courtyard reception area, with a beautiful Oak framed porch, is perfect for your guests to be served Champagne and canapés. You can then mingle in the sunshine with drinks in the gardens or warm up next to the log burner in the Winter months – all with magnificent views of Kirkstead Abbey Ruin. Character and charm sum up the interior of both the Oak framed barn and The Bar which are beautiful buildings. With candles on the tables, our twinkling fairy lights and your own wedding décor, an amazing atmosphere is created and with 200+ evening guests – you will have a great party too! A wedding at Abbey Farm is what you want to make it! We work with you to make your bespoke wedding day come to life and actually happen! Our unique and delightful countryside venue is yours for the day and is one of a select few "exclusive use" venues in the Country. The Abbey Ruin will be floodlit in honour of your wedding day!

Personal Message from the Manager

Name of Wedding Contact: Jo Nelstrop
Welcome to Abbey Farm Weddings - our family home, farm and wedding venue! Our wedding barns have been built with passion, restoring old stone and brick buildings and building brand new elements - we love our barns! Romantic rustic luxury is how we would best describe our wedding venue....which we very much look forward to sharing with you


Year Business Was Established
No. of Weddings Hosted
More than 50
Public Liability Insurance
No. of People In Team
Adam and Emily
Married in April 2021
April 2021
Amazing Venue, 100% recommend!
We've had to rearrange our wedding for the third time and Jo at Abbey Farm has just been absolutely amazing! I honestly can not recommend Abbey Farm enough to anyone! Jo has spend so much time with us during COVID checking that we are happy, if there is anything she can do to help and also having the time to rearrange us, not once, but twice! On the initial visits Jo was ever so welcoming and it's a must visit for anyone booking a wedding in Lincolnshire! I can not wait to have our reception at Abbey Farm!
James and Natasha
Married in July 2020
April 2021
A beautiful venue in the countryside
A lovely relaxed wedding barn with very helpful owners who will happily answer questions and make recommendations. Thank you for all your help so far, particularly with postponing!!
Sarah and Oliver
Married in August 2019
April 2021
Dream Wedding Venue
From start to finish the entire process of working with Abbey Farm Weddings was brilliant. Jo and the team are incredibly helpful, communication was great and this really helped take any stress out of preparing for the big day. The venue was exactly what we were looking for, a beautiful barn and bar area, expansive grounds, surrounded by the Lincolnshire countryside and complete exclusivity. The team were very adaptable and worked hard to make my vision work. Highly recommended venue for a beautiful, rustic, countryside wedding.
Mr & Mrs Jones
Married in July 2019
April 2021
A Day We Will Never Forget
The most magical and amazing day! Everything was perfect and Abbey Farms just seemed to have everything under control, we didn't have to worry or think about anything (just having a great time) their location is really romantic and a perfect location, we really didn't need anything else. They helped us arrange our day, with help from staff and their years of experience we were able to have the day of or dreams! Can't praise these guys enough. From Mr & Mrs Jones
Sam and Will
Married in May 2019
April 2021
Our personal, romantic and bespoke wedding venue
We married in May 2019 and had the reception at Abbey Farm. We loved our day and Abbey Farm provided the perfect venue for it. We knew that it was the venue for us from the first visit we had. Loving the romantic but scenic backdrop with beautiful gardens and unique barns. We wanted a relaxed, day with lots of space for our guests to relax and enjoy the celebrations. Jo was very accommodating to our needs and many of our guests complemented us on the venue and how well the staff looked after us. The beautiful backdrop of the Abbey ruins and the characteristic buildings made for lovely photos that were exactly as we wanted, natural and understated. We feel really lucky to have been able to enjoy our special day before the 2020-2021 lockdowns and wish we could do it all again!
Nikki & Ed
Married in November 2018
April 2021
special place in our hearts
We had the most wonderful day. It is so nice to hear that the staff picked up on the atmosphere. We have had so many compliments about how relaxed and fun it was. The ceremony was just lovely. Thank you so much for facilitating our request! From the moment I arrived to dancing the night away we really would not change a thing so thank you again for helping us make our perfect day reality. Abbey Farm will always have a very special place in our hearts.
Location & Contact Details


Abbey Farm, Kirkstead, Lincolnshire, LN10 6UH, England

Travel Notes

Nearest Town

Woodhall Spa

Nearest Motorway & Junction

Nearest Airport

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Describe the best wedding that happened at your venue?

Every wedding is different here and we love to see how each couple bring their individuality and create amazing and beautiful wedding days !

What is your No. 1 wedding planning tip for couples?

Thought and planning in advance will create the day you are looking for but we are always on hand to help as much or as little as you wish both on the day and beforehand

What’s your favourite personal touch you’ve seen at a wedding?

A vintage bicycle painted with a couple's wedding illustration and beautiful flowers in the basket... a quirky and personalised welcome at the Oak Barn entrance for all the wedding guests

Describe your venue in 5 adjectives.

Romantic, Rustic, Relaxed, Picturesque and Weather-proof!,

Where’s the best photo spot at your venue?

There are many! The gardens and acres of open countryside, the Abbey and the rustic backdrops of the pond, brick and stone or oak beams all make for beautiful and memorable photos as do the surrounding fields

Have you had any celebrity guest or wedding at your venue?


What’s your favourite canapé?

As a born and bred Lincolnshire family has to be honey and mustard Lincolnshire sausages!

What’s your favourite midnight treat?

Bacon sandwiches

What is your venue's most unique feature?

We love the Oak Barn and the Old Granary Barn which we have built as a labour of love - it really is beautiful! As far as we know the mud and stud building of the Oak Barn is the first of its kind for over 300 years.

What part of your business are you most proud of?

Most proud of the testimonials and feedback our team receive after a wedding - happy couples, families and all their friends and most of all we love what we do and enjoy all the wedding days too!

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