Abbey Farm Weddings

£4,500 - £9,997 for Venue Hire
Up to 160
Exclusive Use
Wedding Licence
Instant Brochure!
Receive it immediately
Late Availability
Last Minute Dates Available
Spring 2024!
Bridebook Deal
Seasonal Offer Available
£500 Off
Rural luxury in the Lincolnshire countryside, this idyllic venue offers 2 contemporary barn renovations, set in acres of lush green lawns and parkland featuring the romantic Kirkstead Abbey Ruin.
Abbey Farm Weddings Pricing & Costs

Venue Hire Only

Prices Start At
Maximum Price
- All inclusive venue hire - exclusive use of the venue. - Bespoke pricing depending on your needs. - This includes: Fully staffed bar and all glassware, firepit / log burners, floodlighting to gardens / Abbey ruins, exclusive use of venue and surrounding gardens / grounds for beautiful photography backdrop. Indoor and outdoor furniture, traditional wooden garden games.
What is included in this pricing:
Exclusive use
Choice of preferred caterers
Wedding coordinator available on the day
Furniture included
Day before set up available
Abbey Farm Weddings Features & Capacity


Venue Type
Dining Capacity
Reception Capacity
Usual Access Time
Usual Finish Time

Ceremony & Reception

Church Within Walking Distance
Outdoor Ceremony Available
Wedding Licence


Disabled Access
Exclusive Use
Outdoor Reception Space
Water View
In-House Wedding Coordinator
On-Site Parking
Pet Friendly

Food and Drink

Alcohol Licence
External Catering Permitted
In-House Wine List
Abbey Farm Weddings Full Description
With twinkling fairy lights, The Oak Barn is at the heart of every wedding at Abbey Farm Wedding with 300 year old craftsmanship bought into the modern day the oak is brought to life and adds an amazingly romantic and heart warming rustic atmosphere. The Old Granary Barn has been recently renovated to offer licensed ceremonies on site. St Leonard's Church is also situated on the farm and is within walking distance with some amazing photo options on the way! All this is Exclusively yours On arrival our outdoor courtyard reception area, with a beautiful Oak framed porch, is perfect for your guests to be served Champagne and canapés. You can then mingle in the sunshine with drinks in the gardens or warm up next to the log burner in the Winter months – all with magnificent views of Kirkstead Abbey Ruin. Character and charm sum up the interior of both the Oak framed barn and The Bar which are beautiful buildings. With candles on the tables, our twinkling fairy lights and your own wedding décor, an amazing atmosphere is created and with 200+ evening guests – you will have a great party too! A wedding at Abbey Farm is what you want to make it! We work with you to make your bespoke wedding day come to life and actually happen! Our unique and delightful countryside venue is yours for the day and is one of a select few "exclusive use" venues in the Country. The Abbey Ruin will be floodlit in honour of your wedding day!

Personal Message from the Manager

Name of Wedding Contact: Jo Nelstrop
Welcome to Abbey Farm Weddings - our family home, farm and wedding venue! Our wedding barns have been built with passion, restoring old stone and brick buildings and building brand new elements - we love our barns! Romantic rustic luxury is how we would best describe our wedding venue....which we very much look forward to sharing with you


Year Business Was Established
No. of Weddings Hosted
More than 50
Public Liability Insurance
No. of People In Team
Oh Snap UK
Wedding: November
November 2023
The best venue to work at!
Millie and Jo have always been so accommodating of my VW Photo Booth, and always move mountains whenever I’m at Abbey Farm. The venue is truly stunning, and so versatile to meet a couple’s needs. They have so many wonderful recommended suppliers (ourselves included), who always make the place look utterly gorgeous. If you want a wedding to remember, which is stress free and utterly beautiful, (and award winning!!) definitely book Abbey Farm Weddings!
Hannah and Tom
Happy couple married in September
October 2023
The best day ever!
Abbey Farm is the most beautiful venue and Jo, Millie and the team are exceptional at what they do. From the initial viewing to the wine tasting, to the finer details, to the rehearsal and of course the day itself, they managed to make us feel completely at ease and ensured we had the most fantastic day. Their positivity and can-do attitude made the day run so smoothly and we couldn’t be more grateful.
Mr & Mrs Hudson
Happy couple married in September
September 2023
Truly the best there is!
I’ve been trying to find the words to describe how perfect our day was, I’m still on cloud nine! Everyone working at Abbey Farm is so lovely, professional and so clearly invested in your wedding - they want it to be as amazing as you! Thank you for being there for us, day or night, to reassure us and for helping pull together all my ideas into something wonderful! I didn’t have to think about anything, other than how blissfully happy I was. Your team and venue are amazing!
Mr & Mrs Chong
Happy couple married in September
October 2023
The Perfect Venue
Abbey Farm was the perfect venue for our wedding. Millie and Jo are absolutely lovely and were super helpful with all of our questions and offering recommendations. We really appreciated how responsive both Millie & Jo were to emails as it made the wedding planning process a lot easier! The help from the team carried on from the moment we first contacted them until the wedding day itself when they kept everything running to time and Millie even saved my dress with a safety pin(!).
George & William
Happy couple married in August
August 2023
What an amazing day and what an amazing team!
Millie, Jo and the team were just amazing. We couldn’t ask for more from them. When we went to look at the venue we knew straight away that it was the perfect place. Everything else fell into place just perfectly, organising a wedding from overseas is difficult Millie was always on hand to help out with anything she could, from speaking to our caterer and recommending people when others let us down. The day was truly amazing and everything went perfectly the team on site were incredibly friendly and always had smiles on their faces, and all of our guests were looked after so well by the team! There could be no other score other than a huge 5 out of 5 for these guys.
Chloe Gels Photo & Video
Wedding: August
November 2023
A pleasure to work with them!
I recently filmed a wedding at the wonderful Abbey Farm and had the pleasure of working with Jo & Millie. It was such an amazing day from start to finish, everything ran so smoothly throughout the whole day and the team at Abbey Farm really went above and beyond to make sure everything was perfect for the bride and groom! I can’t wait to be back next summer!!
Abbey Farm Weddings Location & Contact Details


Abbey Farm, Kirkstead, Lincolnshire, LN10 6UH, England

Nearest Town

Woodhall Spa

Follow This Supplier On

Abbey Farm Weddings Press & Awards

Industry Awards (4)

Best of Bridebook County Champion
The Wedding Industry Awards 2023 - REGIONAL WINNER Wedding Venue (Barn) of the Y
The Wedding Industry Awards 2022 - REGIONAL WINNER Wedding Venue (Barn) of the Year
The Wedding Industry Awards 2022 - REGIONAL WINNER Wedding Event Team of the Year

Bridebook Awards (2)

Frequently Asked Questions

Describe the best wedding that happened at Abbey Farm Weddings?

Every wedding is different here and we love to see how each couple bring their individuality and create amazing and beautiful wedding days !

What is your No. 1 wedding planning tip for couples?

Thought and planning in advance will create the day you are looking for but we are always on hand to help as much or as little as you wish both on the day and beforehand

What’s your favourite personal touch you’ve seen at a wedding?

A vintage bicycle painted with a couple's wedding illustration and beautiful flowers in the basket... a quirky and personalised welcome at the Oak Barn entrance for all the wedding guests

Describe Abbey Farm Weddings in 5 adjectives

Romantic, Rustic, Relaxed, Picturesque and Weather-proof!,

Where’s the best photo spot at Abbey Farm Weddings?

There are many! The gardens and acres of open countryside, the Abbey and the rustic backdrops of the pond, brick and stone or oak beams all make for beautiful and memorable photos as do the surrounding fields

Have you had any celebrity guest or wedding at Abbey Farm Weddings?


What’s your favourite canapé?

As a born and bred Lincolnshire family has to be honey and mustard Lincolnshire sausages!

What’s your favourite midnight treat?

Bacon sandwiches

What is Abbey Farm Weddings most unique feature?

We love the Oak Barn and the Old Granary Barn which we have built as a labour of love - it really is beautiful! As far as we know the mud and stud building of the Oak Barn is the first of its kind for over 300 years.

What part of your business are you most proud of?

Most proud of the testimonials and feedback our team receive after a wedding - happy couples, families and all their friends and most of all we love what we do and enjoy all the wedding days too!

Bridebook Benefits

Bridebook GiftReduced Midweek Rates only on Bridebook!
Bridebook Special OfferReduced Midweek Rates only on Bridebook!