£3050 - £7250 for Venue Hire
Up to 120
11 Bedrooms
Exclusive Use
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Just £5000
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A truly romantic 17th century barn set within stunning gardens on the Norfolk Suffolk border. Three-day exclusive celebrations with fine food, fabulous wine & boutique accommodation.
Pricing & Costs

Venue Hire Only

Prices Start At
Maximum Price
Price includes exclusive use of the barn, marquee and grounds for 3 days
What is included in this pricing:
Exclusive use
Non consumables (e.g. linen, lights etc.)
Day before set up available
Furniture included
External caterers not permitted
Private room(s) included (non-exclusive use)
Wedding coordinator available on the day

In-house catering
(price per head)

Prices Start At
Maximum Price
Canapes, 3 course wedding breakfast and evening food
What is included in this pricing:
Table linen included
Cutlery included
Multiple course wedding breakfast
Set menu options only
Minimum numbers apply
Bespoke menu available
Menu tasting included

(total price)

Prices Start At
Number of Guests Included
Price includes exclusive use of the barn, marquee and grounds for 3 days, celebration food, drinks package and the wedding flowers.
What is included in this pricing:
Exclusive use
Canapés included
Furniture included
Wine / soft drinks allowance per guest
Wedding coordinator available on the day
Non consumables (e.g. linen, lights etc.)
Day before set up available
Couple accommodation included
Multiple course wedding breakfast
Private room(s) included (non-exclusive use)
Features & Capacity


Venue Type
Dining Capacity
Reception Capacity
No. of Bedrooms
Sleeps No. of People
Bridal Suite
Honeymoon Suite

Ceremony & Reception

Outdoor Ceremony Available
Confetti Permitted
Wedding Licence
Sound System Available


Landscaped Gardens
Exclusive Use
Open Flame Permitted
Marquee Permitted
Bridal Changing Facilities
Disabled Access
Grade I/II Listed Building
On-Site Parking
Outdoor Reception Space
In-House Wedding Coordinator

Food and Drink

In-House Wine List
In-house Catering
Corkage Charge for Own Alcohol
Alcohol Licence
Full Description
Our wonderful 17th century barn is a fine example of rural architecture, together with a beautiful Queen Anne House and enchanting garden, allowing you to experience a true English country house style wedding. - Exclusive 3 day hire of the Barn, marquee and gardens - Use of our beautiful Bentley - Onsite accommodation for up to 24 guests - All tableware, glassware and linen - Seating plan and easel - Wedding Manager - Front of House Manager - Solid Silver Cake stand and knife - In house Florist - Bridal Suite for all preparations

Personal Message from the Manager

Name of Wedding Contact: Victoria
Hi! Firstly may I congratulate you on your engagement and up and coming wedding! We're so excited to start hosting weddings again and to see our beautiful barn alive once more! We have a fabulous new marquee, new executive Chef, new menus and wine list, along with new meet and greet areas and upgrades to our stunning bridal suite and accommodation. Exciting times are ahead for you and I very much look forward to welcoming you to Elms Barn. Best wishes Victoria


Year Business Was Established
No. of Weddings Hosted
More than 50
Public Liability Insurance
Charlotte & Mikey
Happy couple married in November
November 2022
The Most Magical Day at Elms Barn
Where do we begin! We fell in love with The Elms on our first visit. The venue was exactly what we were looking for, not too big, not too small and surrounded by the most INCREDIBLE gardens. The bonus that there is accommodation on site as well just ticked another box for us. The whole planning process was a dream, and that is down to the wonderful Victoria. No stone was left unturned, everything was covered and every single question (and I had a lot!!) was answered so promptly. I simply cannot fault Victoria for her organisation, attention to detail and just general loveliness. Setting up the day before was great, and as we walked into the barn to set up our tables the first thing we saw were our beautiful flowers, provided by the exceptionally talented Teena and her team. They were simply beautiful and everything we imagined. All of the glassware and tableware was sparkling clean, and it made us even more excited for the following day! The big day arrived and our flowers for bridesmaids, myself and the button holes were delivered by Victoria, and we were then chauffeured down to the barn in the venues Bentley. Such a beautiful car and made us feel all the more special. Once again, thank you to Victoria for organising all of our bridesmaids, flower girls and pageboys to enter the barn just how we wanted. The food was delicious, so much so that some of our guests asked for second helpings of the potatoes, which they kindly obliged! I'd like to also say thank you to all of the waiting staff who served drinks, canapes, food and also turned the barn around for the ceremony, wedding breakfast and our reception. You are all superb. The whole day went by so quickly but we have the most fabulous memories, it truly was the best day of our lives. Once again a HUGE thank you to Victoria, Teena and all the other staff at The Elms. Without you all our day wouldn't have been the day we dreamed of, and we will be forever grateful. With lots of love, Charlotte & Mikey Pilch xx
Mr & Mrs Pointin
Happy couple married in June
June 2022
Best Day Ever!!
Where do we start.... our wedding at Elms Barn was so much more than we could of ever imagined. From the first emails, viewing the venue to our wedding day everything was amazing. Victoria has been brilliant throughout responding to all messages and nothing was every too much trouble. And to Sarah who was front of house on our wedding day, ran the day seamlessly and our guests commented on how well the day run. Also a huge thank you to the chef for such delicious food, again our guests have comment on how delicious the wedding breakfast was and the quality of all the food. Another huge thank you to the front and back of house staff for ensuring everything ran well on the day and making everything extra special. Lastly a massive thank you to Teena for our beautiful flowers and to the driver of the Bentley (sorry can't remember your name) who got soaked as was ensuring I didn't get wet when getting into the car. If any couples are considering Elms Barn we would 100% recommend, we could not fault our day in any way. It certainly was a very special day we will never forget and wish we could relive again and again ❤️ Thank you Elms Barn ❤️
Olivia & Tina
Wedding: May
June 2022
We originally booked before Covid. This was the first venue we looked around and fell in love. It ticked all our boxes, lovely barn, beautiful surroundings, some accommodation and exclusive hire. We then postponed to 14/05/2022. Some of the communication was a little mixed and lacking over this period which was a shame. However in the close run up to the wedding the whole team were amazing. The day was perfect and Lisa and the team were outstanding and completely on point. Everything was so professional but personal too. We had a couple of hiccups or changes we wanted to make on the day and they worked seamlessly to make everything work like a complete machine. Teena also provided us with some beautiful flowers for the day. I would highly recommend anyone looking for a barn to marry in. All of our guests keep saying how perfect the day was and we couldn’t have wished for anything better. Please seriously consider this as an option and contact Victoria who is so helpful in planning your special day.
Claire & Matt
Happy couple married in April
April 2022
The best day we could’ve ever imagined
We had our wedding on the 23rd April 2022 at Elms Barn and it was absolutely perfect in every single way. From start to finish the staff have been exceptional and we cannot thank Elms Barn enough. Victoria has been so helpful throughout the years, having originally booked our wedding for June 2020 she has been so accommodating helping us to move the date not once but twice! We will recommend Elms Barn to anyone that will listen!
Sarah & Valdo
Happy couple married in November
December 2021
Honestly, the aboslute best
Firstly - A HUUUUGE THANK YOU!! From booking to the Big Day, the team at Elms Barn have been faultless. The venue alone speaks for itself. It is absolutely gorgeous and we fell in love instantly. The onsite accommodation is so lovely and really handy as we had family staying from overseas. Tori has been a complete star from the off. Answering all our little questions, being available for support throughout the pandemic and changing dates and being lovely constantly. Lisa was our front of house for the Big Day and she also was amazing. So friendly and helpful, making sure our day was perfect (which it was) Onto the food - WOW Our guests said it was some of the best food they've ever had (which is a huge compliment because our families like to EAT). From the hog roast, breakfast, canapes, wedding breakfast, evening food and another breakfast - plates were licked clean each time. Faultless. All of the staff were very friendly and everyone made the day feel special. We cannot thank you all enough - it really was the day we've always dreamed of.
Linda Sparkes
Happy couple married in October
October 2021
Beautiful place beautiful people
Beautiful place beautiful people who go out of their way to make you feel at home. An amazing venue fabulous grounds.
Location & Contact Details


Toft Monks, Norfolk, England

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Press & Awards

Industry Awards (3)

EDP Bride Wedding Awards 2018
The 2019 Wedding Industry Awards
The 2018 Wedding Industry Awards

Bridebook Awards (2)


Describe the best wedding that happened at your venue?

All our weddings are completely different and wonderful in their own way, how could I possibly choose one!

What is your No. 1 wedding planning tip for couples?

To get your venue and date booked as soon as you can, so that you can enjoy the whole experience of finding all your other suppliers of choice with plenty of time. Regular contact with your Wedding Planner.

What’s your favourite personal touch you’ve seen at a wedding?

The Singing Waiters are a fabulous surprise, fun touch to any wedding - gets me every time!

Describe your venue in 5 adjectives.

Traditional Romantic Elegant Majestic Indulgent

Where’s the best photo spot at your venue?

Our stunning rose garden and the bridge over the moat.

Have you had any celebrity guest or wedding at your venue?

We certainly have! England's Rugby player Joe Launchbury's brother in law got married with us, Korey Smith who plays for Swansea City.

What’s your favourite canapé?

Honey & Soy Glazed Pigs Cheek, Pickled Ginger

What’s your favourite midnight treat?

The Elms Gourmet Burger washed down with a bottle of Pol Roger!

What is your venue's most unique feature?

Our 17th century barn, 3 day exclusivity and exquisite seasonal menus.

What part of your business are you most proud of?

Our English country gardens and stunning grounds.

Bridebook Benefits

Bridebook GiftFree Bottle of Champagne
Bridebook Special OfferA bottle of Champagne in the Bridal Suite to enjoy during your stay.