£3000 - £7395 for Venue Hire
Up to 123
13 Bedrooms
Exclusive Use
Wedding Licence
COVID-19 Update
We know that many of you are eager to come and see our venues (thank you!) and we will do our very best to ensure you are given an appointment on your preferred day and time. We are continuing to do what we can to protect our staff, and upcoming weddings, so we kindly ask that you help us by maintaining our Covid-safe practice. This includes wearing a mask inside our venues, sanitising at every opportunity, and keeping socially distanced from our staff. We will ensure that our venues are well ventilated, and our thermal cameras switched on to detect anyone with a high temperature. If you would rather view our venues from the comfort of your own home then we have very snazzy systems in place to allow you to keep the show on the road and would be delighted to take you on a virtual tour to discuss your plans and ideas, and give you a bespoke quote - all via online video chat. Virtual tours will continue to be available 7 days a week. Please email us at yourday@bijouweddings.co.uk or call us on 0345 130 9966 to book your virtual tour, or in-person appointment.
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Cain Manor boasts romance, rustic style and English countryside charm and is the perfect venue country house wedding venue on the border of Surrey and Hampshire.
Pricing & Costs

Venue Hire Only

Prices Start At
Maximum Price
Exclusive use of the house and grounds, planning support and on-the-day management. Plus all venue essentials such as chairs, tables, linen, cutlery, glasses, microphones, cake table, table plan etc.
What is included in this pricing:
External caterers not permitted
Furniture included
Couple accommodation included
Exclusive use
Wedding coordinator available on the day
Non consumables (e.g. linen, lights etc.)

In-house catering
(price per head)

Prices Start At
Includes canapés, reception drinks, 3 course wedding breakfast with wine and mineral water, a glass to toast, and an evening buffet, plus all service.
Features & Capacity


Venue Type
Dining Capacity
Reception Capacity
No. of Bedrooms
Sleeps No. of People
Bridal Suite
Honeymoon Suite
Usual Access Time
Late Night Extension


Landscaped Gardens
Exclusive Use
Bridal Changing Facilities
Disabled Access
On-Site Parking
Outdoor Reception Space
In-House Wedding Coordinator

Food and Drink

Asian Catering
In-House Wine List
In-house Catering
Halal Catering
Alcohol Licence
Kosher Catering

Ceremony & Reception

Sound System Available
Dancefloor Available
Outdoor Ceremony Available
Confetti Permitted
Wedding Licence
Full Description
Cain Manor is a dream barn wedding venue located on the border of Hampshire and Surrey. Cain Manor is an exclusive use wedding venue with 13 luxury on-site bedrooms for overnight guests to enjoy. An in-house catering team will ensure that your wedding banquet is none other than spectacular, and a specialist Wedding Planning Management Team will ensure that no stone is left unturned when your wedding day finally arrives. Couples can choose to get married inside or out at Cain Manor, and the beautiful Music Room can hold up to 123 guests for a ceremony and multi-course banquet - carefully prepared by a brigade of expert banqueting chefs. During the evening, a total of 170 guest can enjoy the dance floor, bar, grounds and oak-beamed reception space that this luxury barn wedding venue provides. Cain Manor is a must-see barn wedding venue and The Bijou Team welcome you to visit the venue at a time convenient to you.


Year Business Was Established
No. of Weddings Hosted
More than 50
2021 Bride & Groom
Married in October 2020
December 2020
Extremely happy
We attended Cain Manor today to meet our celebrant and have a general look around to get excited again. We were given a warm welcome and a gorgeous hamper. It’s a tricky time for everyone and as the staff said, they can’t wait to get back to doing what we love, hosting weddings! I’m extremely happy, I feel supported by the staff and keeping my fingers crossed for a more positive 2021!
Erin and Jon Street
Married in September 2020
December 2020
It went BETTER than we could ever have hoped
Myself and my wife got married at Cain Manor in September. We were scheduled to get married there in July but had to postpone due to the pandemic. I have to say that our experience did NOT match with the other "reviews" that have been left. Considering the situation Bijou faced they have been amazing from start to finish with us. They were transparent, honest, reassuring, and consistently kept us aware of the latest possibilities (as the govt. chopped and changed what was and was not possible). So, in regards to how they handled the pandemic situation, we found them to have done an amazing job there in a confusing situation. In terms of the wedding itself - it went BETTER than we could ever have hoped. The pandemic meant we couldn't have the 80+ people we had originally planned but we had just under 30 (including two singers and a photographer) and, in hindsight, a smaller, more intimate wedding suited us down to the ground. Everyone stayed on site at Cain manor and got to know each other. We've had constant messages and texts from family members and friends who attended raving about it. My Mum is STILL on cloud 9 and wants to talk about it consistently any time I ring. She was more nervous than we were about how it might go and is so over the moon. She says she can't stop looking at the pictures! First off, Bijou helped us to plan the wedding in under a month! We did have September date planned but the govt weren’t allowing receptions so we thought we'd wait until a December date we had as another back up. Then, in August, Boris allowed ceremonies and it was all systems g at the last minute. Bijou helped us to plan everything and were so supportive throughout the time and also offered great ideas we hadn't thought of. So in the build up with the planning they were fantastic. Food wise, we went on a tasting day in August and were wowed by the food. I thought it would be good. I didn't realise it would be THAT good. Everything we had on the tasting menu was just amazing. We ended up going with the beef but could easily have gone with any of the starters, mains or deserts as they were all so tasty. We also ordered pork belly for the guests the night before. The food would be up there with some of the nicest restaurants I've eaten in. The wedding day itself was perfect. The ceremony was a bit odd, as people had to be in masks, but it's a story to tell the kids! Other than that Bijou did an amazing job of making a slightly strange situation normal. The staff were brilliant and all so helpful. And throughout the day little suggestions were made that made our day even better (such as cutting the wedding cake and having the first dance outside whilst the sun was setting as it was quite warm). We've had family members rave about the venue...the food...the staff...the gardens...lots of "the best wedding I've ever been to!". It was just a truly unforgettable day. So if you're reading this and wondering if Bijou can help you have your perfect wedding - I can tell you from personal experience at least that they can! I'll be recommending them to any family or friends who get married in the future and will feel confident they're in safe hands (and ever so slightly jealous because I wish I could do our day all over again!). Big, BIG thanks to all the team at Bijou.
Anna & James
Married in October 2019
August 2020
Everything we wanted and more
Firstly we want to say an absolutely massive thank you ! Our wedding day last Sunday at Cain Manor was totally perfect, our guests all loved the venue and are still raving about the food, please pass on our thanks to the chef. Your staff were all so professional and the day ran so smoothly. Special thanks must go to Sienna, Emily and Jonny – they all worked tirelessly to make our day everything we wanted and more. Please pass them all our thanks.
Liza & Neil
Married in September 2019
August 2020
Nothing was too much trouble
Ann, We had a really lovely day and wanted to say a huge thank you to you and your team for making everything in the run up and on the day go so smoothly. Dean was amazing, nothing was too much trouble on the day and he made me feel very relaxed and calm! My family also said he was lovely! We had really lovely comments on the venue and on the food especially! How amazing the food was and that everyone was so happy that the portion sizes were normal compared to other weddings they had been to! Thank you again to you and your team for always answering my endless questions and your help with the planning!
April & Jonathan
Married in June 2019
August 2020
We are all still on cloud 9!
Thank you to all the team at Bijou (huge thanks to Dean). Our day was incredibly special and we are all still on cloud 9! The professional attitude of all staff was noted by all guests and you all went the extra mile in insuring that our day was faultless from start to finish! We would highly recommend Cain Manor to anybody and it will always hold a special place in our hearts.
Mother of the Bride - Carol
Wedding: May 2019
August 2020
Cain Manor was the perfect venue
We had a wonderful day and I am sure Katy & Matt will be in touch on their return from honeymoon. We could not have wished for more – many guests were saying it was the best wedding they have ever been to, which obviously made us very happy indeed. Dean and his team were so professional, kind and friendly at all times. Nothing was too much trouble for them. Once again thanks to all at Bijou HQ especially Maddie, who never kept us waiting when we had a query or were unsure about something – it made us feel so comfortable that Cain Manor was the perfect venue for Katy & Matt. Now, unfortunately, back to reality!
Location & Contact Details


Churt Road, Headley Down, Hampshire, GU35 8SR, England

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Describe the best wedding that happened at your venue?

There have been many fantastic themed and seasonal weddings at Cain Manor that make the most incredible photographs. One couple got married on Halloween and totally transformed the venue!

What is your No. 1 wedding planning tip for couples?

Choose the wedding venue you truly fall in love with - and we're not just talking about the bricks and mortar. We're talking about the grounds, the staff, the banquet room, the menus....the works. When you look back at your wedding photography and videos in years to come, you'll realise that you made a great decision.

What’s your favourite personal touch you’ve seen at a wedding?

Fairy lights add sparkle and a romantic vibe to our Music Room. Recently, a couple went all-out and dressed the cathedral length window from top to bottom with a curtain of fairy lights. One word - MAGICAL!

Describe your venue in 5 adjectives.

Cosy - Romantic - Rustic - Stylish - Charming

Where’s the best photo spot at your venue?

Cain Manor boasts spectacular garden views over what is known as Surrey's Golden Valley. Therefore any wedding photography taken in the garden will have the most incredible back drop.

Have you had any celebrity guest or wedding at your venue?

We're lucky enough to welcome celebrity guests to Cain Manor on a frequent basis.

What’s your favourite canapé?

Our brigade of chefs are always perfecting our menus and producing creative, palate pleasing dishes. We love to indulge, so one of our favourite canapé bites are our Roasted Hampshire Venison served on a potato scone with redcurrant jelly - delicious!

What’s your favourite midnight treat?

If we're not nibbling on fresh popcorn from our retro popcorn machines, you'll find us over at the chocolate fountain dipping sweet treats in to the melted chocolate.

What is your venue's most unique feature?

The Music Room at Cain Manor is our wow-factor. When we show couples around Cain Manor we always hear a 'oh my goodness' or an exhilarating sigh, having walked in to The Music Room and realising that the dream could actually turn in to a reality, here in this room. Its wonderful!

What part of your business are you most proud of?

The Bijou Team help make it all happen for our couples. Regardless of what happens behind the scenes, we always ensure that couples feel like their wedding is the only wedding ever to have taken place at Cain Manor. It's pretty special. Come and meet us to find out how we can help you plan a dream wedding.

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