£3,895 - £7,620 for Venue Hire
Up to 123
11 Bedrooms
Exclusive Use
Wedding Licence
Bridebook Deal
Offer Available
Dry Hire Late Availability
A romantic Tudor manor house on the brow of a Hampshire hill, Cain Manor is the quintessential English country hideaway.
Pricing & Costs

Venue Hire Only

Prices Start At
Maximum Price
Exclusive use of the house and grounds, planning support and on-the-day management. Plus all venue essentials such as chairs, tables, linen, cutlery, glasses, microphones, cake table, table plan etc.
What is included in this pricing:
External caterers not permitted
Furniture included
Couple accommodation included
Exclusive use
Wedding coordinator available on the day
Non consumables (e.g. linen, lights etc.)
Multiple course wedding breakfast

In-house catering
(price per head)

Prices Start At
Includes canapés, reception drinks, 3 course wedding breakfast with wine and mineral water, a glass to toast, and an evening buffet, plus all service.
What is included in this pricing:
Menu tasting included
Table linen included
Multiple course wedding breakfast
Cutlery included
Wine allowance per guest
Minimum numbers apply
Bespoke menu available
Features & Capacity


Venue Type
Dining Capacity
Reception Capacity
No. of Bedrooms
Sleeps No. of People
Bridal Suite
Honeymoon Suite
Usual Access Time

Ceremony & Reception

Sound System Available
Dancefloor Available
Outdoor Ceremony Available
Confetti Permitted
Wedding Licence


Landscaped Gardens
Exclusive Use
Bridal Changing Facilities
Disabled Access
On-Site Parking
Outdoor Reception Space
In-House Wedding Coordinator

Food and Drink

Asian Catering
In-House Wine List
In-house Catering
Halal Catering
Alcohol Licence
Kosher Catering
Full Description
Cain Manor steals your heart the moment you arrive at the end of the long driveway that winds through woodland on the Surrey-Hampshire border. A picture-book exterior with looks to charm beckons you inside, where you wander beneath oak beams recycled from ancient ships. The house and grounds are exclusively yours for 24 hours, with perfect settings for your wedding ceremony and reception. Inside, The Music Room is a showpiece space for both, hosting up to 123 guests for your ceremony and wedding breakfast (prepared with panache by our expert banqueting chefs) and up to 170 guests for the evening reception. Outside, you can marry in the meadow gardens with views of the Surrey Hills, beneath a pergola beautifully dressed for the occasion. Expect bottomless Prosecco and Pimm’s here, too, on warm summer afternoons. Later, a beautiful bridal suite awaits, together with 12 luxurious bedrooms for your nearest and dearest. With 25 years’ experience in planning and hosting wedding celebrations, the day you dream of is in the best of hands at Cain Manor.


Year Business Was Established
No. of Weddings Hosted
More than 50
Charlotte Taylor
Happy couple married in April
June 2023
Beautiful venue with fantastic staff
Cain Manor Where to begin…. Cain Manor is a fabulous, beautiful, characterful venue with a fantastic amazing team of staff. Our Wedding Day was perfect, their team even organized the weather with a lovely sunny spring day so we could have our ceremony outside! From the moment we first viewed the venue, with Danielle showing us around, we fell in love with it! And then going forward they continued to make us feel so welcome on each visit. The Harper Wedding Planner is a life-saver and along with the Wedding Planning Wednesdays, with Emy, Ashely & Maddie, and the online messaging system made the planning process was so smooth and stress-free! On the day itself, every single staff member was fantastic. We felt the whole day ran so effortlessly and that is credit to the Team. From when I arrived in the morning to the Prep Room to get ready in, to them getting Luke into the Stable Block, so they could move me to the Bridal Suite to finish getting ready, would not have gone so well without their coordination and help! The Food was so tasty from the tasting platter menu tasting to the plates dishes on the day. Every guest we have spoken with only had good things to say! The venue itself is so beautiful, so many guests loving the character of the house and the grounds! Bonnie, our doggy, loved the place as well! And it is a great dog-friendly venue! Special mention to Danielle, Freya, Eloise, Jane and actually everyone at Cain Manor and the wider Harper Staff Team for helping is have an UNFORGETABLE wedding day! We can’t thank the team enough and very highly recommend to anyone asking! Charlotte & Luke – 29 April 2023 (Photo by David @marriedtomycamera)
Rebecca & David
Happy couple married in April
June 2022
We had THE BEST day
David and I just wanted to say a huge thank you to everyone at Cain manor for all the help on the lead up to the wedding and everyone there on the day making sure it ran smoothly. We had THE BEST day. Thank you so much.
Becky & Dan
Happy couple married in September
November 2021
Everything went perfectly
We just wanted to drop you a quick note to say thank you so much for everything that you did for us last Saturday. We had a fantastic day and everything went perfectly. The attention to detail that you had throughout the day was amazing from making sure we had a drink and some canapés to taking us around the room before everyone else was amazing.Thank you for everything you did.
Jenna & Brad
Happy couple married in August
November 2021
What utter stars!
I have been racking my brain about what to say that can really show you how pleased, grateful, thankful we are for everything but I am not sure I can find the words to show you just how happy we truly are! Firstly, I just want to say the biggest thank you to Maddie and Casey who have just been there every step and without them (Maddie especially) it wouldn’t have been the day that it was. Secondly I just want to thank Sam and Antonio. What utter stars! They were just the loveliest people and could see they had everything under control. They were so polite, calming and generally fantastic to have around. So please just extend my biggest thank you to them! I also want to thank all the other staff for being so brilliant. There was one waiter in particular who I didn’t get the name of, but he took the best care of my friend who is pregnant. Her and her husband were so touched by the care he was giving her and making sure she was comfortable all day. These little touches really made us feel so cared for which is something I will always be grateful for, so again thank you to that star! The day was seamless. The number of comments we have had about how brilliant the venue was, how nice the food was and how impressed people were with the service etc has been overwhelming. It truly was the best day and I cannot thank you enough for making it happen. I will be forever grateful to you all!
Carol MOB
Wedding: July
November 2021
First class, efficient and friendly
We had a wonderful day and I cannot praise the staff enough, first class , efficient and friendly. The venue was perfect absolutely spotless with excellent service . Thank you for making my daughter’s wedding worth waiting for and I can recommend Bijou at Cain Manor 100%.
Rachel & Rory
Happy couple married in July
November 2021
From the day we booked every single staff member has been absolutely fantastic
Me and Rory had the most amazing few days at Cain manor last week! It was incredible! Please pass my thanks to all the staff from the day of who went above and beyond to ensure we had the most brilliant day! They were amazing! and from the day we booked every single staff member has been absolutely fantastic in helping us have the wedding (s) we always dreamed of! With every single problem you were there with an answer and with a helping hand. We have both been so touched by the help we have had and how well we have been treated. Thank you all once again!
Location & Contact Details


Churt Road, Headley Down, Hampshire, GU35 8SR, England

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Press & Awards

Bridebook Awards (1)


Describe the best wedding that happened at your venue?

There have been many fantastic themed and seasonal weddings at Cain Manor that make the most incredible photographs. One couple got married on Halloween and totally transformed the venue!

What is your No. 1 wedding planning tip for couples?

Choose the wedding venue you truly fall in love with - and we're not just talking about the bricks and mortar. We're talking about the grounds, the staff, the banquet room, the menus....the works. When you look back at your wedding photography and videos in years to come, you'll realise that you made a great decision.

What’s your favourite personal touch you’ve seen at a wedding?

Fairy lights add sparkle and a romantic vibe to our Music Room. Recently, a couple went all-out and dressed the cathedral length window from top to bottom with a curtain of fairy lights. One word - MAGICAL!

Describe your venue in 5 adjectives.

Cosy - Romantic - Rustic - Stylish - Charming

Where’s the best photo spot at your venue?

Cain Manor boasts spectacular garden views over what is known as Surrey's Golden Valley. Therefore any wedding photography taken in the garden will have the most incredible back drop.

Have you had any celebrity guest or wedding at your venue?

We're lucky enough to welcome celebrity guests to Cain Manor on a frequent basis.

What’s your favourite canapé?

Our brigade of chefs are always perfecting our menus and producing creative, palate pleasing dishes. We love to indulge, so one of our favourite canapé bites are our Roasted Hampshire Venison served on a potato scone with redcurrant jelly - delicious!

What’s your favourite midnight treat?

If we're not nibbling on fresh popcorn from our retro popcorn machines, you'll find us over at the chocolate fountain dipping sweet treats in to the melted chocolate.

What is your venue's most unique feature?

The Music Room at Cain Manor is our wow-factor. When we show couples around Cain Manor we always hear a 'oh my goodness' or an exhilarating sigh, having walked in to The Music Room and realising that the dream could actually turn in to a reality, here in this room. Its wonderful!

What part of your business are you most proud of?

The Harper Team help make it all happen for our couples. Regardless of what happens behind the scenes, we always ensure that couples feel like their wedding is the only wedding ever to have taken place at Cain Manor. It's pretty special. Come and meet us to find out how we can help you plan a dream wedding.

Bridebook Benefits

Bridebook Gift.
Bridebook Special Offer.